Potty Training the Adopted Child

Potty training a toddler can seem like an overwhelming task.  Questions like where do I start, how do I know if they’re ready, and what do I even do may run through your mind as you’re figuring out all things related to potty training.  Here are some tips and tricks to keep in mind if you’re at a point of potty training your child.

• Set a schedule
  • Be sure to set potty times up on a consistent schedule and stick to it
  • Perhaps have a timer that dings when it’s time to try
• Allow your child to have as much say in their training as possible
  • Create a time to pick out a potty chair together
  • Allow your child to pick out underpants of their liking
• Be aware of the words you chose and the tone during potty training
  • Speak in a matter of fact way when talking about bodily functions, body parts, and where to use the bathroom
  • Accidents will happen – how you respond, both with words and expression, make a world of a difference
• Modify your approach to your child’s personality
  • Each child will be ready to potty train at different times, and this is ok
  • Learn different techniques that might work with your kiddo –
    • stickers, praises, talking about it in everyday situations, or by example
  • Make it fun!
    • Have books and toys readily available to play with if need be!
    • Sing songs while waiting!
    • Consider praises and motivators (such as stickers) to assist with encouragement

For additional articles to read and consider, check out these resources:

• https://www.ocd.pitt.edu/sites/default/files/Parent_Guides/Foster-Parents/Toilet%20learning%20foster%20Parent%20Guide_0.pdf
• https://www.adoptattachtherapy.com/articles/stinkybiz.pdf

This blog post was written by Post Adopt Coordinator, Darcy Solem, LBSW